Tip Sheet #2

Doing It Right Through Wisdom “With the Wisdom of an Elder we can learn to share”: Top Twelve Tips for Keeping Relationships Healthy

1. Everyone is sacred; show respect by how you treat yourself as well as how you treat others.
2. Don’t just get mad and hold it all inside, take a break then talk it out.
3. Apologize or have code words for forgiveness when you’re fighting.
4. Do healthy things together: take walks, eat good food, play games and have fun.
5. Pay attention: remember important dates like birthdays.
6. Be trustworthy: no lying or cheating.
7. Listen and give non-judgmental support.
8. Make decisions together.
9. Respect each other’s body and space: no touching unless the girl clearly says ‘Yes’ – No means No.
10. Take time to get to know each other before you commit; don’t rush into relationships.
11. Don’t rush into sex.
12. Learn more about your culture.